James 1:19-20 So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; 20 for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
In the age of social media, where hot takes go viral, outrage spreads in seconds, and comment sections become battlegrounds, James offers a divine pattern that stands in stark contrast to the digital frenzy. His instruction is timeless but urgently needed today: be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger. These three commands — revolutionary yet straightforward — cut through the noise of our reaction-driven culture and call us to a Spirit-led posture in a screen-lit world.
In a world where replies are faster than reflection, being quick to hear means more than scrolling—it’s the posture of a disciple: humble, teachable, and tuned to the Spirit. There’s power in pausing to listen before we speak. When we seek to understand, not just react, we reflect God’s heart. True listening leads to grace, not assumptions, compassion, rather than conflict. In a world quick to comment, let’s be quick to care. Listening isn’t weakness—it’s Christlike wisdom.
In the digital age, words are no longer just spoken—they’re posted, tweeted, commented, and shared in seconds. But if we truly understood what it means to be slow to speak, our timelines would look very different. Words have weight, even online. A careless comment can ignite division, damage reputations, or deepen wounds. But words chosen with wisdom—seasoned with grace and truth—can heal, guide, and point people to Yeshua (Jesus).
Being slow to speak doesn’t mean staying silent — it means surrendering our words to the Holy Spirit. It’s the choice to pause, pray, and check our hearts before we speak or post. We’re not called to prove points or win arguments, but to speak truth with grace. Proverbs 25:11 says, “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.” That’s more than poetic–it’s prophetic. God calls us to speak only after we’ve listened, sought His wisdom, and aligned our hearts with His.
In a world of instant opinions and viral outrage, Spirit-led silence is not weakness—it’s wisdom. And when we finally do speak, our words carry the weight of heaven.
Anger is not always sinful, but unrestrained, reactive anger is destructive. James will go on to say in the next verse that “the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God” (James 1:20). That means our outbursts, our need to defend ourselves, our bitterness—none of it builds God’s Kingdom. But patience, reflection, and forgiveness do. To be slow to anger is to trust that God is our defender, that justice belongs to Him, and that grace is more powerful than retaliation.
Ultimately, this passage is not just about behavior modification—it’s about spiritual transformation. James isn’t calling for politeness; he’s calling for holiness. This is what it means to walk in the Spirit—to reflect the character of Christ, who listened to the Father, spoke with purpose, and bore with our sins in patient love.
So in a world overflowing with anger and offense, let us rise higher. When we learn to hear from God, speak with Spirit-led wisdom, and refuse to be easily offended, we reveal the character of Yeshua within us. This is maturity—not reacting in the flesh, but responding in love. It’s not weakness; it’s strength under the rule of the Spirit. Let’s reject the culture of outrage and pursue our high calling in Him with humility, grace, and power. Let every word, every response, every post reflect the One we follow — for our voice should reflect heaven!
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[worthy_plugins_devotion_single_body]As we find ourselves in the midst of the Yamim Noraim (Days of Awe), our hearts are centered this week on repentance as we prepare for Yom Kippur, which is approaching this Friday. In this spirit, I want to share something I discovered while studying the Jewish roots of many of Yeshua’s (Jesus’) parables. I came across an insightful teaching from a Jewish Rabbi, which I believe holds a valuable lesson for us today.
After our very small wedding in Jerusalem, my wife and I planned to have the big ceremony she’d always dreamed of, in Havre De Grace, Maryland. Rivka had it planned it to the tee. It was an outdoor wedding next to the longest standing lighthouse on the east coast. We were going to wow our guests with an entrance by way of sailboat. Ten dancers with candles in glasses were to proceed my beautiful bride as I awaited her under our hand-crafted chuppa, lit by the sunset on the bay.
Between Rosh HaShannah and Yom Kippur are ten days. These days are known as “Yamim Noraim”, “the Days of Awe” — or also translated, the “Awesome days”. In Judaism it has been long believed that these days seal your fate for the upcoming year — and also allude to your final destiny, concerning whether your name continues to be written in the Book of Life.
One of the major themes of Rosh Hashana is called Akedat Yitzchak, which means the Binding of Isaac. According to Jewish tradition, God told Abraham that the ram’s horn – otherwise known as a shofar – should be blown on Rosh Hashana to remind people of the sacrifice that God provided Himself when Abraham was about to offer Isaac on Mount Moriah.
The concept of ownership often influences how one can view the world, but if we recognize the truth that our time here is short and we can’t take anything with us, it will change our perspective. We are simply stewards of what has been entrusted to us. I’ve been running Worthy and its sites for 25 years, and I’ve never thought I was an owner but rather a steward of a ministry.
The last and most intimate metaphor for Messiah’s relationship with us is as Bridegroom to Bride. For some, the Lord’s intention to marry will be the most significant and wondrous purpose in all of Creation. The preparation for the wedding will be the most meticulous and profound of all historical processes, orchestrated by His Holy Spirit in cooperation with every devoted and expectant saint who ever lived.
One constant pitfall we must watch for is taking credit for something that God does in or through us, or using the gifts and callings of God for self-exaltation. In that light it may be easier to handle poverty, weakness, or insignificance, than wealth, ability, power or authority, since poverty and frailty are not normally things we boast about, and they cause us to recognize our need for God. Prosperity, gifting, and anointing, on the other hand can be powerful temptations, leading to pride, covetousness, and self-sufficiency.